Boredom
Is the Enemy: 16 MORE's to Pump Up Productivity
By Scott Ginsberg
When
was the last time you were bored?
Today?
Yesterday?
Last week?
Last year?
And when you were bored, what did you do?
Eat?
Watch TV?
Doodle on a piece of paper?
Spend an hour on www.boredatwork.com?
I haven’t
been bored since college. And you know what? I’m damn proud
of that. It’s consistently enabled me to accomplish more stuff,
meet more cool people and have more fun.
And here’s what amazes me: friends and fellow professionals
often ask, “Wow! Books, speeches, article, podcasts, blogs,
traveling and marketing - where did you find the time to do all that
stuff?”
Well, um, last time I checked, all of us had the same amount of time
in each day, right?
Maybe it’s simply because I wasn’t bored.
But don’t take it from me. Take it from these guys:
Grasp your opportunities, no matter how poor your health; nothing
is worse for your health than boredom. ~Mignon McLaughlin
The war between being and nothingness is the underlying illness of
the twentieth century. Boredom slays more of existence than war. ~Norman
Mailer
I am never bored anywhere: being bored is an insult to oneself. ~Jules
Renard
Boredom is like a pitiless zooming in on the epidermis of time. Every
instant is dilated and magnified like the pores of the face. ~Charlotte
Whitton
You get the point: boredom is the enemy. Which is kind of funny considering
that the world is filled with people who complain, “Gosh, there’s
never enough time,” and people who complain “Gosh, I’m
always so bored??”
Therefore, consider these MORE's for eliminating boredom:
1) MORE reading
2) MORE writing
3) MORE blogging
4) MORE podcasting
5) MORE exercising
6) MORE brainstorming
7) MORE networking events
8) MORE reviewing your goals
9) MORE audio learning systems
10) MORE research on the Internet
11) MORE enhancing your creativity
12) MORE lunches with hot prospects
13) MORE reviewing old underlined books
14) MORE calling your clients to check up
15) MORE asking clients why they work with you
16) MORE calling your friends you haven't talked to in months
Think of it this way: if you’re bored, maybe that means you’re
a boring person.
LET ME ASK YA THIS...
When was the last time you were bored?
LET ME SUGGEST THIS...
Make it a goal NOT to be bored at any time for the next month.
© 2006 All Rights Reserved. Scott Ginsberg, aka "The Nametag
Guy," is the author of three books and a professional speaker
who helps people maximize approachability, become unforgettable and
make a name for themselves. To book Scott for your next association
meeting, conference or corporate event, contact Front Porch Productions
at 314/256-1800 or email scott@hellomynameisscott.com
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1. When
making calls to customers, never, never, never hang up your phone
before them. Wait for them to hang up first. It’s a small point
but very irritating when you’re on the phone, agree to say farewell
and immediately you hear their click at their end. Some get the impression
that the other person can’t wait to get on to the next call.
2. Record
all details of the customer. Use paper or technology to record all
you can about the customer that you have so fastidiously collected
and refer to it every time you speak or meet with them again. I use
a software programme called ACT! Which records all sorts of information
about my customers, not just the usual things such as names and addresses.
It records
spouse details, children, hobbies etc. It shows me every contact I’ve
had with them whether this be by phone, letter, email or a meeting.
It allows me to constantly recollect everything about them when they
call me. Make your customer data portable so you can recollect it
at a moments notice. Handheld computers are fantastic devices to contain
this information especially the ones which act as phones as well,
instantly bringing up the customer file when they phone you.
Very
impressive and it shows the customer that you are putting them first
not you. When you return to your desk, simply pop the device into
the cradle attached to your PC and hey presto, the data is synchronised.
3. When
asking questions be careful of your tone. Research has constantly
shown that communication is vastly more than just the words we choose
to use. Body language comes into it but, increasingly, the tone we
use affects how the words are interpreted by the customer. And that’s
what Rapport Selling © is all about.
How
the customer sees it. Record your tonality during questions and statements
that you make and observe the direction it takes. Questions should
have a slight rising of the tone towards the end. Statements should
have a relative flat tone, with emphasis on words where needed. Commands
should and do have a tone that falls sharply at the end.
4. Listening
is more than the words. There’s level 1 listening which is listening
but with your point of view, constantly relating what you’re
hearing to our experiences and values. I do this when I go to the
airport. I’m listening and looking at everything with the sole
purpose of going to the right terminal, at the right time.
There
is level 2 listening which is hearing what’s being said with
the customer’s experiences. This is very difficult. Relating
everything that is being said to them and their situation, constantly
bringing it back to their world and their agenda. Then there is level
3 listening. Few people can do this. This is listening as though the
information flowing to you is like a radio wave. Coming from all directions.
Smells, instincts, opinions, body language, that subtle grin, that
tonality, that closing of their eyes when they talk about their holiday….
That’s level 3 listening and that’s the one we need to
strive towards if we are to master Rapport Selling ©
5. Eye
contact has to be one of the most important means of gaining rapport
and building trust with people. The eyes are said to be the windows
of the soul and unless we look at people as we talk and present, many
people will not believe you and your actions and words. The key is
to give as much eye contact as they give you. No more and no less,
just the same. Again the whole emphasis here is to put your habits
in the back room and focus on your customer and how best to communicate
with them. When faced with eye contact challenge.
You’ll
know when this happens, use the social and business gaze. The business
gaze requires your eyes to glance from their forehead to the left
eye, onto their right eye and back to the forehead in a triangular
motion. The social gaze, which I always prefer, allows you to gaze
from eye to eye and onto their mouth, back up to their eyes and so
on.
Paul
is an international speaker, trainer, author and coach based in the
UK. He works with companies across the globe to help them increase
their sales results. He specialises in rapport selling and rapport
sales coaching and can ignite his audiences large or small. Get your
free Sales Excellence Ebook Chapter and MP3 download at http://www.rapportselling.com
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